Hey everyone! I don't mean to be a downer here, but I'm having a serious case of the baby blues. For those of you with kids, did you experience that bit of depression? And, if so, about how long did it last? Thanks for any advice!
I had a bit of it. The baby blues is typical as I'm sure you've heard. I did better with Tyler because I could go outside and get some sunshine. Even if you are still a bit sore and don't feel like walking, get a book and go sit outside in the sun. It's going to be a beautiful weekend. Tell Bryce to take the baby for a bit and tell him you need a little break. If you have a pump, pump some milk and make Bryce give him a bottle. And remember (although it might be hard) that you aren't being a bad mom, but that you can be a better mom if you just have some time to yourself. And also remember, that it is okay to let Cole cry, especially if you know nothing is wrong, diaper changed, fed, burped, and etc. Sometimes they just cry. Hang in there! If you need some help, don't be afraid to ask.
Hey Yell, I agree with Jen. I did have the baby blues for a few weeks with the twins also! I would just break down and cry, but Lance would just take over for me and give me some time by myself! I would take a long hot bath and just lay and relax. And as Jen mentioned you may feel like your a bad mother but your not! Your a awesome mommy and I know you love little Cole so much. It is a hard adjustment but we all know you can do it and you will be great! If you need anything or someone to talk to please feel free to call me. I would love to help out! Even if you need someone to come sit with you I can always drop the twins off at my mom's and come and hang out with you for a few hrs! Your doing great and Cole loves you. Hang in there!
I had the blues too-a little bit different though. I was diagnosed with heart failure after Oli was born so it was a little different. I'm with Jen and Amber though-take time for yourself-even if it is a long hot shower-it will make the day go by better!
My baby blues lasted at least 6 weeks and Shawn wasn't able to help much cause he was in school full-time and working-full time. I remember feeling not happy and wishing I had someone to talk to who would listen to me--so I am happy to help you whenever! Give me a call and I can chat or come on over!
Just want you to know that I love you, Danielle, and I'm thinking of you. Postpartum depression can be rough! I had it pretty bad after Grace and not as much after the other two. Just remember that it is just the hormones talking and that it's okay that you are feeling this way. It's so normal! So, so normal. Keep reminding yourself of that. Also, don't hesitate to call your doctor...he/she might have some good suggestions as well. When does Bryce go back to work? I'd be happy to come and visit/help out, if you need me. Take care. A big hug to you.
I don't have any advice other than to let you know that you are an amazing person and mom! Perhaps a lively discussion about Hell House is in order? ;) Please let us know if you need anything.
Danielle, Just remember that bringing home a new baby is a huge adjustment! You have never lost sleep quite like that nor worried about someone else non stop! It seems overwhelming at first but you will soon start feeling better and life will regain some normalcy. You will soon find that you wonder how you ever lived without him! Call me anytime to help or just to talk! Love ya-Tammy
Adjusting to life with a new baby is really hard, especially when you're older when you have your first, you have been married a while, you were a working woman, and you're used to doing your own thing. I still go through phases when I get depressed about all the changes in my life, although the first three months were the hardest. (Then he got to be more interactive, which made it more fun!) The good news, so to speak, is that you're not alone! So many people go through it, so don't be afraid talk about it with them and with Bryce. And yes, taking time for yourself is essential! (I still have to learn that one!)
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I had a bit of it. The baby blues is typical as I'm sure you've heard. I did better with Tyler because I could go outside and get some sunshine. Even if you are still a bit sore and don't feel like walking, get a book and go sit outside in the sun. It's going to be a beautiful weekend. Tell Bryce to take the baby for a bit and tell him you need a little break. If you have a pump, pump some milk and make Bryce give him a bottle. And remember (although it might be hard) that you aren't being a bad mom, but that you can be a better mom if you just have some time to yourself. And also remember, that it is okay to let Cole cry, especially if you know nothing is wrong, diaper changed, fed, burped, and etc. Sometimes they just cry. Hang in there! If you need some help, don't be afraid to ask.
Hey Yell, I agree with Jen. I did have the baby blues for a few weeks with the twins also! I would just break down and cry, but Lance would just take over for me and give me some time by myself! I would take a long hot bath and just lay and relax. And as Jen mentioned you may feel like your a bad mother but your not! Your a awesome mommy and I know you love little Cole so much. It is a hard adjustment but we all know you can do it and you will be great! If you need anything or someone to talk to please feel free to call me. I would love to help out! Even if you need someone to come sit with you I can always drop the twins off at my mom's and come and hang out with you for a few hrs! Your doing great and Cole loves you. Hang in there!
I had the blues too-a little bit different though. I was diagnosed with heart failure after Oli was born so it was a little different. I'm with Jen and Amber though-take time for yourself-even if it is a long hot shower-it will make the day go by better!
My baby blues lasted at least 6 weeks and Shawn wasn't able to help much cause he was in school full-time and working-full time. I remember feeling not happy and wishing I had someone to talk to who would listen to me--so I am happy to help you whenever! Give me a call and I can chat or come on over!
Just want you to know that I love you, Danielle, and I'm thinking of you. Postpartum depression can be rough! I had it pretty bad after Grace and not as much after the other two. Just remember that it is just the hormones talking and that it's okay that you are feeling this way. It's so normal! So, so normal. Keep reminding yourself of that. Also, don't hesitate to call your doctor...he/she might have some good suggestions as well. When does Bryce go back to work? I'd be happy to come and visit/help out, if you need me. Take care. A big hug to you.
I don't have any advice other than to let you know that you are an amazing person and mom! Perhaps a lively discussion about Hell House is in order? ;) Please let us know if you need anything.
Danielle,
Just remember that bringing home a new baby is a huge adjustment! You have never lost sleep quite like that nor worried about someone else non stop! It seems overwhelming at first but you will soon start feeling better and life will regain some normalcy. You will soon find that you wonder how you ever lived without him! Call me anytime to help or just to talk! Love ya-Tammy
Sorry about the blues, Yell. Let me know if there is anything I can do- and yes- lets play on a Friday!
Adjusting to life with a new baby is really hard, especially when you're older when you have your first, you have been married a while, you were a working woman, and you're used to doing your own thing. I still go through phases when I get depressed about all the changes in my life, although the first three months were the hardest. (Then he got to be more interactive, which made it more fun!) The good news, so to speak, is that you're not alone! So many people go through it, so don't be afraid talk about it with them and with Bryce. And yes, taking time for yourself is essential! (I still have to learn that one!)
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